Have you ever felt a little exasperated when speaking to a receptionist and wished, if only for a few minutes, that you could speak directly to the girl you are enquiring about?

I don’t want to put every agency in London in the same pot, but if I imagined to be the enquirer there is nothing I’d desire more during that first contact than to hear the voice of the lady escort I am interested to book. Her voice would tell me millions….. infinitely more than anything the receptionist could tell me about her.

During my first years in London, I worked for agencies. At the time I was inexperienced, I most certainly lacked the confidence to answer clients directly, I wholeheartedly approved that everything should go through a receptionist. No way would I allow strangers to call my number! But gradually I learned more and more about this interaction, I grew more confident, I desired independence, most of all, I’ve had enough of receptionists who are not careful and don’t screen clients properly before sharing with me their details. Countless times have I met (or not met) time wasters all because a receptionist didn’t do his or her job.

I remember that at the time I worked with a beautiful coloured young lady. She is the first that began telling me about building my own website. I was still very hesitant and lacked the self assurance to “go solo” but certain events with the owners of the agency I worked for at the time became the last straw and convinced me that it was time for me to break loose and become an independent escort.

I never looked back.

I am now periodically contacted by agencies in London and worldwide who ask me whether I would like to work for them. I always decline. I could never again see a client unless I speak to him (or her!) directly first. If I was the client I would feel the same way, I’d love to speak to the service provider, I’d love to get a feel of what she says and how she says it, whether she is friendly, chatty, fun to interact with. Whether I get the sense that she takes my call seriously and is quick to give me any information I might ask.

From my perspective as an independent escort in London I appreciate every email, every text, and every phone call. I like to be the one to answer them all. Such is the nature of my job that I could never employ someone to do this for me. It must go through me. I must know who you are, I must speak to you, I must get the sense that you and I will enjoy our time together, that once we are together we’ll be able to enjoy great conversation, connect and become relaxed in each other’s company before we feel ready to stand up and gradually take our clothes off…………… I can pretty much understand all this while I listen to your voice during that introductory phone call.

For those of you who are new to the escort world, the word escort might sound intimidating. But it needn’t be…….. an escort is a lady who is willing to welcome you for intimate companionship. Paid companionship is actually not so bad 😉 it is offered to you respectfully, the language is clear from the start, and it comes without consequences (except, perhaps….. the happy post coital hormones……… ❤️). An escort that values her discretion as well as yours will never use your email or contact number unless you are the first to reach out. Paid companionship is not an affair and I believe that affairs are essentially the most dangerous option for married couples. Feelings get mixed up in an affair……. boundaries easily fade and emotions can make even the most rational of people lose control. With an independent escort on the other hand, you are safe, “What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas”.

Again and again I’ve heard from married men that their exploring on the side, this allowing themselves a bit of sensual me-time, this pocket of fantasy in their lives that they don’t share with anyone else and indulge into every now and again, that this experience actually helps their settled lives. Nobody more than I knows the need of men……. I believe that it is much healthier for such a man to book an escort scot-free, than risk everything by letting himself go emotionally in an affair.

Now, what is your opinion on this? 😉 I’d be happy to hear your thoughts.

Have a wonderful day, and perhaps…….. see you later……. 😏❤️